Dark Matter

a mixture of the unknown and the tangible - by Jennifer Newsom


"If you aren't yet at the point of clarity, then make that your first goal. It's a big waste of time to go through life being unclear about what you want. Most people wallow way too long in the state of "I don't know what to do." They wait for some external force to provide them with clarity, never realizing that clarity is self-created. The universe is waiting on you, not the other way around, and it's going to keep waiting until you finally make up your mind. Waiting for clarity is like being a sculptor staring at a piece of marble, waiting for the statue within to cast off the unneeded pieces. Do not wait for clarity to spontaneously materialize—grab a chisel and get busy!"        - Steve Pavlina

I am trying to gain more clarity about my life goals and direction. Part of that journey is having a life coach who holds me accountable and is there when I just need to get something off my chest. I feel so blessed to have this friend who let's me fully be me (as well as let's me talk at length about myself - ha ha ha!)

I am still searching for a mentor in architecture, but the best thing about my life coach is that she helps me be a better mentor for myself. It is so important to harness our own power to enact change, create flow, and move purposefully through life. YOU can do it, this thing called life. You ARE doing it.